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Will this cause me to be alone for the rest of my life?
I’m what you could call a person with strong morals and beliefs. I’m 20 and I am against going out and partying, drinking and having promiscuous sexual in counters like everyone else my age is. Anyone that partakes in that life style is unoriginal and boring in my book and I want nothing to do with them.
Instead of doing that stuff, I’m very committed to bodybuilding and spend lots of time at the gym. I’m also a strong believer in true love, marriage and saving everything for that person. That being said, I notice most of the girls my age are out conducting themselves in the manner I described above…which is unacceptable to me. Everyone I talk to about this seems to think that I have to accept a woman who was like this before but I completely disagree, and so I’m asking do you think this will cause me to be alone for the rest of my life?
First and foremost I just have no attraction or interest in a girl who has lived a lifestyle like that, and second I morally disagree with it. So it would pretty much be impossible for me to have any kind of attraction or closeness with her.
Also, I am a virgin and saving myself for my future wife. I just don’t think it would be fair if I married a woman who had "slept around" or "experimented" in the past, while I have no history or "baggage" and she gets to enjoy the benefits of it and have the satisfaction of knowing she’s my first. Meanwhile I have to come to terms with her past…..It’s just not okay with me.
Will I be alone for the rest of my life?
Girliee~Girl: Tell me, why does "actually having fun in life" have to involve partying, drugs/alcohol and sex? why cant her version of fun in life be writing or making music? rock climbing? traveling to europe? Why must it be parties and sex? cuz your damn right I’d turn her down for that.
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Is this a ticket to be alone for the rest of my life?
I’m what you could call a person with strong morals and beliefs. I’m 20 and I am against going out and partying, drinking and having promiscuous sexual in counters like everyone else my age is. Anyone that partakes in that life style is unoriginal and boring in my book and I want nothing to do with them.
Instead of doing that stuff, I’m very committed to bodybuilding and spend lots of time at the gym. I’m also a strong believer in true love, marriage and saving everything for that person. That being said, I notice most of the girls my age are out conducting themselves in the manner I described above…which is unacceptable to me. Everyone I talk to about this seems to think that I have to accept a woman who was like this before but I completely disagree, and so I’m asking do you think this will cause me to be alone for the rest of my life?
First and foremost I just have no attraction or interest in a girl who has lived a lifestyle like that, and second I morally disagree with it. So it would pretty much be impossible for me to have any kind of attraction or closeness with her.
Also, I am a virgin and saving myself for my future wife. I just don’t think it would be fair if I married a woman who had "slept around" or "experimented" in the past, while I have no history or "baggage" and she gets to enjoy the benefits of it and have the satisfaction of knowing she’s my first. Meanwhile I have to come to terms with her past…..It’s just not okay with me.
Will I be alone for the rest of my life?
El Americano: I don’t deliberately torture myself with social isolation, I just ended up a loner because nobody else shares these views and life style as me.
El Americano: It did strike a chord because I don’t enjoy being a loner such as I am, plus you were the only one who cued into the fact of me being a loner, I didn’t really say anything about it in my paragraph. The whole premis of this question is that everyone is the total opposite of me and I’m not willing to accept a woman who lived that lifestyle in the past, which makes me wonder if I’ll be alone forever.
Tommy L: Hahahaha funny, let me clarify some things for you. I don’t go to church, I’m not religious, my parents and friends DISAGREE with my morals and I don’t look up to or follow anyone. This is all me, I know that’s hard for you to comprehend but I came to these ideals on my own free will, I am the last person in the world to let myself be led or molded by others. The promiscuous party people are more clueless than me because they don’t have any morals whatsoever. You can come in here and play the "I’m an adult with life experience" card on me but it sure as hell doesn’t mean my life is going to turn out the same ways your did, let alone go down the same road. And I absolutely refuse to settle down with a woman who had even 1 sexual partner in the past, simple as that.
El Americano: I agree with you, though I disagree with other people doesn’t mean I hate them. But are we also not allowed to have morals and standards?
El Americano: Good, I’m glad you’re not bashing on my beliefs. Maybe the right words is "beliefs" rather than morals. But basically you’re saying you want me to be more social right? And yes I am obsessive about my workouts, there is nothing unhealthy about that.
El Americano: I’m "obsessed" with bodybuilding because it brings me joy, it makes me happy. When I’m working out I don’t think about people I don’t like, and my whole point of bodybuilding has nothing to do with other people. And I disagree about the career part because you’re basically implying being obsessive about money is good.
What do you think I’m hiding from exactly? It seems to me that there just isn’t much out there in the world, which is why I’m the loner that I am. Not many people to share my beliefs with because the world and the people in it are so incredibly one-sided. I used to pick and pull people apart and not find reasons to like them, but I stopped doing that. There are people in my life that have done things I disagree with but I’m still kind to them and still socialize with them on occasion.
El Americano: So you want me to go out and have fun, and stop judging people? is that what you’re saying? Even still, I wont give up my beliefs.
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